Pride has never been apolitical, but in recent years, particularly after the Israeli occupation鈥檚 onslaught on the Gaza Strip after 7 October 2023, the coalition of queer rights in the west has felt increasingly fractured.
In Berlin, the city I call home, Pride events have splintered along political lines as Palestine has been a recurring point of contention. According to organisers of Internationalist Queer Pride Berlin (IQP Berlin), a split between two major alternative Pride events followed an incident in which the initial organisers called police to the event after participants expressed solidarity by chanting 鈥渇ree Palestine鈥. Meanwhile, at Berlin鈥檚 official Pride parade, attenders have previously waved rainbow and Israeli flags as they marched through Berlin alongside an Israeli embassy float.
At last year鈥檚 IQP Berlin, the Palestine bloc was one of the largest. Jews and Arabs walked side-by-side, wrapped in Palestinian keffiyeh scarves, flanked by German police.
The event faced police pushback, including officers in full riot gear wielding batons and shields. At least 25 people were detained, with the Palestine bloc being key targets for the police.
Despite these displays of solidarity, and the risks of repression protesters have faced, there have been those who have sneered at the idea that queer people can find common cause with Palestine and advocate for liberation. The most popular example of this came last year when US pop star Chappell Roan criticised the Biden administration for its arming of the Israeli military. On stage at the Governor鈥檚 Ball festival in New York, the singer, who is a lesbian with a drag persona, turned down an offer from the White House to perform for Pride month, saying: 鈥淲e want liberty, justice and freedom for all. When you do that, that鈥檚 when I鈥檒l come.鈥
Roan鈥檚 show of solidarity drew the ire of talkshow host Bill Maher, who suggested the singer would be 鈥渢hrown off a roof in Gaza鈥, invoking an oft-used cliche based on a video that has been debunked by Reuters and AFP, among others.
He went on to make punchlines about Roan鈥檚 career 鈥渂lowing up鈥 like pagers in Lebanon, referring to Israeli attacks that killed 12 people and wounded thousands. Hundreds of children were killed in the following months in Lebanon, thousands in Gaza. Maher postured as the liberal hero of queer people, but it seemed easier for him, like many in the west, to point fingers at Palestinian society than to confront the systems his own countries support 鈥 systems that bomb, displace and isolate queer Palestinians in Gaza.
When Benjamin Netanyahu addressed congress in July 2024, the Israeli prime minister said that pro-Palestine protesters holding up signs saying 鈥済ays for Gaza鈥 might as well call themselves 鈥渃hickens for KFC鈥, suggesting our existence is mired in contradiction.
That attempt to sever solidarity between queer people and Palestine has been deadly. A year earlier, an Israeli soldier held up a Pride flag in Gaza, with 鈥渋n the name of love鈥 scrawled on it in English, Hebrew and Arabic. The state of Israel鈥檚 official X account boasted of this achievement, 鈥渢he first ever pride flag raised in Gaza鈥. As a queer Palestinian, it is enraging to see my identity used as an instrument of war, but what I find most strange is the cognitive dissonance: for the 鈥渓ove鈥 of whom is this flag raised? Certainly not of the queer Palestinians living in Gaza, who have faced 19 months of terror, and a lifetime of occupation.
In Jerusalem, the city where I was baptised, there is a very small organic scene of queer Palestinians. Some Palestinians from the city even visit Tel Aviv for Pride if they are allowed to travel there. Most are not. Queer Palestinians all face different obstacles based on where they live and how visible they are; their pain lives precariously in the crossfire of multiple struggles.
One friend in Gaza told me he only wished to live in peace, away from conservatism, religious extremism and war. I later discovered he lost both of his parents and his brother, as well as cousins, in Israel鈥檚 onslaught. Another friend from Jerusalem told me he had a message for the west: that freedom comes in many layers. 鈥淲e are under occupation and facing an ongoing genocide,鈥 he said. 鈥淪o the first layer is simply to exist.鈥
We can imagine and hope for a just, safe world for queer Palestinians to flourish in. Though there are some vibrant, if quieter, queer communities across the Middle East, there is still persecution. But if the goal is for queer Palestinians to live in an open, tolerant society, then they need first to survive Israel鈥檚 aggression. There can be no Pride under occupation.
There are Palestinian LGBTQ+ organisations such as alQaws and Alwan with aspirations to shape a Palestinian society based on tolerance, equality and openness. An ambition that is made so much harder, if not impossible, by occupation.
You can鈥檛 see rainbows from underneath the rubble. Equally, you cannot in good conscience celebrate Pride in the west while knowing that many of our countries are supplying the arms and funds that are killing queer Palestinians, along with their families. Despite attempts to position the struggles of queer rights as in opposition to Palestinian liberation, I have been moved to see queer people not fall for the trap. This Pride month, we will march again, surrounded by confetti and keffiyehs.
Jad Salfiti is a British-Palestinian video producer and journalist